We just returned from a mini vacation to a state park camping with two sets of neighbors. I am not sure that vacation is the right term for sleeping in tents and peeing in outhouses, but non the less it was a trip away from modern day technology.
This is the second year we have done this. Six adults and nine children in total. Fifteen people is a lot of people to camp with, or should I say feed,especially when the kids out number the adults, but I wouldn't do it any other way.
Really it is quite amazing when you think about it...On August 8th we will hit the 3 year mark on our "new" house. When we moved to Cambridge Drive we had hopes that this was the final move of our life. We knew we loved the house, the school district, the cul-de-sac road, the convenience to town, the closeness to parents and in-laws,; but what we didn't know was how wonderful the neighbors were. In 3 short years, I have made two of the best friends a girl could have. Honestly, I struck gold.
My neighbors are like family to me. Not a day goes by without me talking to one if not both of them. We walk into each others homes without knocking, we drink coffee while our children play together, we shop, gossip, paint, swim, cookout and travel together. God answered my prayers when we moved in that day.
THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON.
Cambridge Drive is a small, quiet street. Eight house to be exact. 16 kids total. The youngest being my number 3, and the oldest leaving for college tomorrow. 8 boys and 8 girls. Each one of my 3 children have a friend within one year of them, making playtime so much fun.
My hubby and I are not campers. Neither of us camped as kids, but when the neighbors suggested it last year we thought why not. We really thought we should let our children experience something that we never were able to. We left Gia with Grandma and Grandpa for she was barely one, but this year we thought she should experience it with us.
As much as I hate to say it, I think we are slowly becoming a camping family. Our children love it, Jared and I not so much. OK- not 100% true, I love everything but the night and Jared well he does it for me because he knows I want the kids to have life experiences I never had. What might surprise you, is it is not the sleeping that bothers me....it is the dark woods with those damn raccoons.
Cooking is definitely my thing. Nothing beats a meal cooked over a campfire. There is just something about it that you can't recreate at home on the stove. I have become a huge fan of cast iron and can hardly wait to get my hands on a frying pan for my stove top.
While camping this time around, Jared & I celebrated our 12th anniversary. Never in a million years would I have guessed I would be camping with my children and neighbors on my anniversary, but it was truly priceless. We actually went hiking. I had no idea the Midwest could have such beautiful hiking trails. It was a wonderful way to celebrate another year of marriage. I find the it almost ironic that on our wedding day we climbed up and down hills, through grass, mud and dirt while taking turns carrying Gia on our back. It kind of represented what a marriage after 12 years is like...ups & downs with lots of curves and dirt. In this day and age, 12 years seems like a long time. It appears as though most people don't make it past 5 anymore(but that is another post, on another day).
The highlight of the trip was the evening "owl" walk. A park ranger gave us a 10 minute lesson on 4 types of owls in the area. We then walked through the woods at 10pm without flashlights in search of these owls. Talk about being out of my comfort zone....but it was so neat....my kids are still talking about it. We actually learned how to call for them, and by the end of the hike we heard them all call back to us. Sooooo, soooo cool!
All in all, the cool July temperatures, rain, and raccoons haven't scared me off just yet. Next years trip was planned while floating on tubs down the river. So I guess this makes me a camper after all. That and the fact that I finally learned how to pee in the woods and not pee all over myself at bedtime. :)